Relational Evangelism is too easy.
I say that because the way relational evangelism is often marketed, it comes off as an easy way to get out of speaking the Gospel to people, especially those we don’t know well. Relational evangelism can be an easy way to avoid that uncomfortable and sometimes awkward experience of preaching the Gospel to a stranger. One sided support of relational evangelism can easily lead one to scoff at tracts, outreach Bibles and street preachers. A prevailing attitude among many young Christians is that traditional concepts of evangelism are uncomfortable and therefore wrong, as though being or making someone uncomfortable and awkward is unloving or sinful (quite the opposite is true when it comes to helping someone see the sin and idolatry in their lives and their need of a saviour).
It’s true, relational evangelism has its place at the centre of our evangelistic lives. Often we must build trusting relationships and encourage people towards Christ and show them the light of Christ through example before God brings them to a place of trust and receptivity to his Word. However, we mustn’t forget that “[the gospel] is the power of God for [unto] salvation to everyone who believes” (Romans 1:16). The power of God is in the message itself! For that reason, Paul wasn’t ashamed of his message, and he spoke it to everyone who would listen. When the apostles were put on trial in the Book of Acts the high priest said “You have filled Jerusalem with your teaching” (Acts 5:28). They too were not ashamed of the message. They spread the message that Christ died for sins because they saw it the same way God does, as good news; and not only good but beautiful, amazing, astounding news.
The Word of God is powerful and God is mighty to save. There is real power in the message about Christ. Even as we plant and sow into the lives of our friends, in light of the power of God’s Word let us fill the city with our teaching, with the Word of God; knowing that it is God who gives the growth (1 Cor 3:6-7), praying ceaselessly that God would draw his people to Christ, and believing that God’s living Word is powerful and that even the hardest of hearts can be turned by God in an instant, whether through a loving friend, a piercingly truthful Gospel tract, or the passing words of a street preacher and his billboard.
John Piper, in his book Finally Alive sums up all of this beautifully.
Relational evangelism is a key piece of the puzzle in the evangelistic lives of Christians, but for some it has come to overshadow and bring scorn upon other forms of spreading the Good News. Despite this trend, may we not give in to doing what is easy only, and may God use every means possible to spread the Gospel all across our homes, schools, cities and nations to his Glory.



